if you are only going 35s and not in any way thinking about running 37s, 4.88s are your best bet. the 37s on a 30 is risky anyways and to add a 5.13 is even riskier (good thing my middle name is DANGER) but it can be done with some success. the trouble with 5.13s on 30, as has been said, is that your R&P is thinner than that of a 4.88 making it slightly weaker. the 4.88 is perfect for what you are looking at, as long as you dont go bigger, and even then you could run 37s on 4.88s, but loose power.
i am not sure that i would throw chromos in my 30 as i am happy with my shafts being the weak part of my axles as they are cheaper and easier to replace. if you make your shafts stronger than your R&P, and use the weakest link theory, then........

not saying it will happen, but things do break! like i said, i am doing something that most say i shouldnt and have been fine so things are possible! i just will not be upgrading my shafts until frank sells me his rubi44 housing

and i have a bit more thickness.
as in everything, just my opinion...
andrew -