Well to get this back on track I will tell of my first experience. This was the first time I saw the black apparition and it was in my new house - house was brand new built and no history of hauntings on the land. I was sitting against the back wall of the house next to the sliding back door on a stool between the kitchen and living room with the living room couch to me left with my mom sitting there. I was looking down the hallway that goes to the front of the house, how i described in my last story. Now the dining and living are separated by a wall but the dining room and front room are not, its all open but there is a support thats located just between them along this hallway. The support is square and painted white, there were no lights on except a lamp by the front door that produce some background light. So I was sitting on the stool opening an ice pop or something when in my peripheral looking up I notice a shape standing in front of the support. This was one of those you see something out of corner of your eye and look and its gone moments, but when I looked up it didn't go away right away. It all happened really fast but also felt like forever. I looked straight at it and it was just a black silhouette of a person. Probably like 6', 6'2" and it had no features. It was just completely black. I starred at it for probably only a second or two but I felt like I got all the time I needed to examine it and see what it was. After I blinked it vanished and I just starred. My mom looked at me and asked if i was okay. I said yeh and just moved on. But I have no doubts this was what I later saw with my ex and what I believe was following me and possibly trying to possess me at some point.