LOL!! Well, if it's been explained to you by engineers, it must be true. Of all the short arms I've run and or tested including Full-Traction, TeraFlex and the like that all have clevite bushings on the frame end, I can't say I felt anymore "shock absorbing" versus something like an RE, Synergy or the like that have the clevite on the axle end. Of course, this is to say nothing about arms like Currie that have Johnny Joints on both ends. But hey, I can only go off of what I have experienced as I haven't had anything explained to me by an engineer.
Clevites are cheap and readily available but if you've ever tried changing one out, you'd know that it's a serious pain in the ass to do it especially when compared to something like a Johnny Joint. MOST people I know don't have the means or the know how to change one out on their own.
I'm with you here. Like I said, I find that most never use their Jeeps as hard or as often as they think they do.