Well that didn't take long cleaned it all off and literally saw the oil coming out.... seems that seal is leaking.... tightened it down until I can get it in....
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In that pic, it looks like you're pointing at the trans pan. But earlier, what was on your finger was clearly engine oil. Sure the leak isn't from higher up? It's common on the 3.6 for the oil cooler to fail and oil runs down the back of the intake valley and down the rear of the engine by the bellhousing.
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I think your right I looked to the left of the oil filter cap and there is oil pooled up..... and oil is on the side of the bellhouse...
Or tell the wife the only fix is to swap in an LS V8.