Since you seemed to have missed it, I've personally emailed him back and have yet to hear from him. His account here is still active and he's had plenty of time to respond to this thread. Your friend hat-jk has contacted him by PM and his brother has even come on to the forum today and still nothing. Of course, you can choose to believe whatever it is you want to believe.
Okay, from what I'm told, you are Asian too and that you're holding out hope for him because he was nice to you in person. Of course, from experience, most e-tough guys are. My question to you is, how long do we wait? You sent out a PM to them of which they would have received an email to let them know as much and his brother has already been on the forum today. How long do we wait? To be honest, who you choose to hang out is of no concern of mine and I'm certainly not trying to convince you or anyone of anything. All I can do is post up what I was sent by your friend. You can choose to believe whatever it is you want to believe.