I went a slightly different route for my install. My jeep is a daily driver but I do off-road regularly. My priorities are going from point A to B on tough trails rather than trying bigger obstacles until something breaks. I may go to 35's someday (after some axle upgrades) but 33's are working well for me right now.
I went with the "TJ Ultimate Kit" from
http://www.dpgoffroad.com . I've had it for 5 years and I could not be happier with the performance and the ride quality. It's a 2.5" suspension lift and a 1" body lift. I was worried about doing a body lift but it has some real advantages... if you ever plan to do a tummy tuck, and I've had no drivetrain issues whatsoever.
I've heard lots of conflicting reports about OME shocks, etc. but after all this time (and one theft) mine are better than ever. Dirk (the owner) delivers some of the best customer service in the industry. In fact, just give him a call. Most of his customers spend at least 30 minutes on the phone with him discussing their needs and preferences, and that is how he likes to do business.
Dirk really goes over the top. When my jeep was stolen I needed receipts for the work I had done to it. I've moved twice since the install, and that receipt was long gone. I emailed Dirk and got a scanned copy from his filing cabinet within 24 hours. I can't say enough about that guy... and I'm just as happy with the lift too.