"almost" is right BUT, the 10.9 IS still stronger.
I was looking to replace the hardware since the grade 8 bolts seem to have a better fit. I know what slop in a system can do.
Slop is caused by people who fail to maintain their Jeep. If a better fit was all that was required to hold your Jeep together, there would be no need for TORQUE settings. But hey, you can believe whatever it is you want to believe. Once you replace your bolts, can I have your old ones? I'll even pay for shipping :yup:
I know you are not a fan of the AEV "lift kits" because the large use of brackets.
Oh please, if you really did know anything about me, the AEV 2.5" lift kit is about the only kit that I might recommend of theirs if only because it doesn't use their overpriced and weak control arm drop brackets.
I liked the AEV lift because you get progressive springs and shocks and do a good job of keeping the lift under 3".
And it is THIS that makes me not favor the AEV 2.5" lift. Not that it will matter to you being that you don't plan on playing on any rocks but, by it's design, progressive rate coils resist stuff and these in particular are too firm for my taste. Of course, ride quality is 100% subjective and to each their own. I prefer a softer ride especially for daily driving.
If you were to get a kit under $1500 including everything that offered an excellent on road ride and 2.5" of lift...
You're kidding right? If you do a little looking, I think you will find there are a host of other 2.5" lifts out there that are sold for UNDER $1000 that includes MORE than what you get with the 2.5" AEV kit and will actually address things like longer sway bar links and track bar relocation brackets. As far as "excellent on road ride" quality goes, a softer riding coil will get you that.
...but not to much that I need to change my drive shafts?
You would only need to change your front drive shaft IF you have a 2007-11 with an automatic AND are running longer shocks that allow for more droop. If you're just going to run the Bilsteins that come with the AEV kit and never plan on playing on the rocks, you won't need to worry about that. As far as the rear goes, IF you have a 2-door and do get 3" of actual lift, you will be needing to replace that sooner than later due to the steep angle your drive shaft will be sitting at. Of course, you will also need to get adjustable rear upper control arms to set your pinion angle when you do that.
My wife is already weary because she is only 4'9" and has a hard time getting in. So this will be a one and done lift.
That being said, she should know that you'll most likely be getting about 3" of lift out of your 2.5" AEV lift.
To address the teraflex suggestion I have read that their kits have a tendency to sag. If this is unfounded I am all ears.
I think you might be thinking about Rough Country, their coils do sag. TeraFlex has the opposite problem. They have some of the stiffest riding coils I have ever installed and tested and in any height they offer.
I think part of the problem is there are so many options one can be overwhelmed and after reading so many reviews that this kit just works it makes you lean in that direction.
So stop reading and get out there and find a few people with different lifts if you can go for a test ride. Everyone will tell you what they have is best but, if you can tune out what they have to say and just go off of what you feel, you can make a better and more educated decision. Again, ride quality is 100% subjective.