Also Joey1313 remember the SAVE Expo is in Starke, Fl next weekend if you are up that way. Might go up Saturday, camp, and roll back to the Tampa Bay area on Sun.
My brother lives in Temple, NH and there are quite a few places to wheel up there. There are even a few hard-core wheeling places. Check this out in Harrisville. Heck drive 2.5 hrs, wheel, camp, and return a day later.
Not sure about lights for the rear bumper but I just bought a set of Baja Design amber fogs for my Gladiator and I love them. Great build quality and performance. Solid brand. I'm sure they have some good options for what you are trying to do.